Dawson Family

Happy Birthday Zech!

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Follow our Epic Adventures!

2010-02-11T14:43:00.007-06:00

Okay, this is long over due, but this blog is no longer about the adoption of Zechariah. It is about our Family. This is why I decided to start a new blog:
http://www.dawsonepicadventures.blogspot.com. So please follow us over on that site!
Thanks,
Rhonda

Today's a Good Day!

2010-02-09T11:57:00.001-06:00

Zech is doing great today! Yesterday was another story...horrible day! But, as they say, don't live in the past! Today is awesome!! I went to the RMH and ate and got a nice hot shower, Zech went to the playroom at the hospital, now we are both just sitting and relaxing (like we could do much more.lol.) I'm thankful the nurses actually got to see him smile! I was worried he wouldn't get happy at all here. Macey had got him a "doctors" kit before we came here. Last night Zech starting checking all the nurses hearts when they would check his....way too sweet!! This is day 5 of 7 (with no food or water). He actually might get to eat or drink on Thursday (lightly anyways) it will just depend on how well he's healed. I think he will at least get clear liquids. Praying.
My dad and Aunt continue to do well. Tom left Sunday night, don't know if he'll get a chance to come back while we are here. He's had so many breakdowns with his truck, he needs to keep working while he can. He was here for the surgery, that's what matters most!
Oh, I don't know how many of you have Skype, but its the greatest thing to stay in touch with people. Up live and personal!
Well, think I'll go for a little walk while Zech is happy.
Until next time..........

Urban Goes Country: My Valentine...#links

2010-02-09T11:53:00.000-06:00

Urban Goes Country: My Valentine...#links

Surgery went well

2010-02-05T22:26:00.001-06:00

Friday night, 11:27 pm. Finally he's sleeping, hopefully for more than 20 minutes. Both surgeries went well yesterday. Today was day one of seven with no food or water (he's getting sugar water and b12 in his IV). Zech was in recovery for about 5 hrs., they had trouble getting his heart rate and O2 levels stable. Oxygen still keeps dropping, so he is on oxygen...just laying on the bed beside him. He's a little...okay a lot...grumpy. I really don't think he's in major pain, I think its being tired and not being able to drink water. He LOVES his water! He'll handle not eating better than not drinking. Anyways, we'll be here the 7 days, then not sure how long after they start feeding him. Probably another 3. We will then go to RMH and stay to see how he does, and finally our last (prayfully) appointment will be on the 18th.
So much going on! The day we admitted Zech here, my dad was put in the hospital in TN. He's home now and doing better. My Aunt is in Texas getting some treatments for cancer (I hate that word!)
Tom is here with me until Sunday, its been nice to be able to have a couple breaks, not to mention having him here when I had my emotional breakdown yesterday!
Well, I will update as much as possible, I guess I'm going to try to get some sleep while Zech is.

Off to Cincinnati...Again!

2010-02-01T22:36:00.005-06:00

Tomorrow we leave for Cincinnati. We will be there until the 20th. Zech will be having surgery on Thursday. We will be glad when its over, but I am totally dreading this trip! I hate the thought of him having to have a major surgery...and be sedated...and all the other things one would worry about. Prayers are appreciated! I'm attaching some long over due pictures. Hope you enjoy!

Belated Happy New Year

2010-01-11T06:55:00.002-06:00

Oh my, how time just flies! Happy New Year!! This year I hope everyone laughs louder, smiles wider, stands taller,hugs longer, dances crazier, lives grander and loves louder!! Thats my mission this year! So many people, so many problems, "except by the grace of God, there goest I"! How I love my family and all I know...and even people I don't know but have been blessed by their lives via blogging!
We are currently in Michigan, at my Grandmother's. My Aunt, 54, was given a diagnosis of Extended lung cancer. This is just what the doctor's say, God knows better! I fully believe in the power of prayer and what God has put on this earth for our medicine!! Joni is fighting this full force and is a beautiful, strong, spectacular person! She also has a strong, beautiful family that is fighting along with her!
February 4th Zech will have his first surgery. A repair of his anal atresia. The prognosis is: FULLY functional! Yeah!! It will take 3-6 months after, knowing Zech, I think it will be closer the the 3 month mark! He's such a little trooper. Zech is talking a lot more and a lot clearer. He is starting to read. I will stop by his school this week to get some basic reading books that they start them on. He hasn't been to school since the end of November, but has learned quite a bit.
Macey and Megan are staying very busy with work, school, and planning Macey's wedding. All is on track!
God Bless!!

We're Home!!

2009-12-21T09:50:00.002-06:00

Okay, we got back home Saturday night. I guess I would have to say we had a very successful trip. Zech should be fully operational after the operation. We seen urology while we were there in hopes that both surgeries could be done together. After all the testing, we have found out that Zech is not emptying his bladder all the way. I guess his bladder neck is narrow and it has too much pressure. They want to put him on medicine that will relax the bladder neck, however, as with any medicine there are side effects that would affect his bowels, Soooo.....I am taking him back to Vanderbilt and staying with that doctor so they can keep an eye on his kidney function (which is showing some damage already) and hope that when this doctor does his urinary surgery, he can also correct the bladder neck. Zech's colon doctor said the Nashville doctor was one of the best urologist's in the world!! I too felt the confidence with him just like I felt the confidence with Zech's colon doctor.
Zech picked up a stomach virus while we were there so we've just been laying around since we've been home. He's doing much better today, but I thought we would still rest.
I feel bad for Meggie, she's had a lot on her plate at the stores since I've been gone. She was also sick, but doing better now.
Macey is done with school until sometime in January. The girls had a Christmas tree up and lights on the front porch when we got home.....merry Christmas to me!!
This is going to be a great Christmas!! Not lots of presents, just lots of love and family time!!! So excited!
One more thing, the Ronald McDonald House, wow!! What an awesome place! I hope no one ever has to experience their child in the hospital for a long time where they need to stay at one, but what a blessing to so many families!! Please remember them when thinking about donating to something. Even if its buying extra soap or paper towels, they need it!!
Thanks for all your prayers!!!

We are on our Way!!

2009-12-13T10:50:00.004-06:00

Well, I tried to update the blog the other day, typed a whole bunch, then it wouldn't post and I lost it all! Lets try again. Zech and I are at the Ronald McDonald House in Cincinnati, OH while he is seeing some doc's at the Children's Hospital. Lots of tests, probing and proding, cries and laughs. We have been here a week, and at least another week to go. All that said, we did get wonderful news Friday. With one more surgery on his intestines, Zech should be functioning properly ALL BY HIMSELF!! So excited!! We went and bought some "BIG" Boy undies the other day...SpongeBob of course! If they can get us on the schedule we will have the surgery while we are here, if not, it will be the first of February. During that time, he will also have a hernia repair.

This next week will entail x-rays every day, going to the endocrinologist, ultrasounds, and going to the urologist. Zech also has to have a surgery on his urinary system, and I'm hoping to be able to do that along with the intestinal surgery. If not, that will be a couple more trips up here.

I know it probably sounds like a lot in black and white, but Zech is really doing well!!

Tom was able to stay with us this weekend. Zech was SOoooo excited!! (I think Tom was too!)

I don't believe I've ever stayed away from home this long, I miss my girls!! They're both so independent, they probably don't even realize I'm gone (though they miss Zech!)

Well, going to wind down for the night....take care!

How are things going?!

2009-11-07T09:23:00.002-06:00

Well, everything has been extemely hectic lately. Everything is well now, though in the last three weeks we've been to the ER twice, plus doctor appointments, plus life! Zech is well though. He seems so healthy to have all these issues (all to do with his digestive system and urinary system). Zech is starting to say complete sentences. A lot is not "clear" to most, but mommy understands! We're still learning sign language, I really think that helps.
Halloween was fun. Zech was a LEGO part of the time, then he was a cowboy. Once he realized that running to people's door, hollering "Trick or Treat", and smiling got him food, he was ALL about it!
Macey is still going to school, working, and planning her wedding. Things are going well there....she's such a determined person!
Megan is working ALL the time! She's got quite a few parties and concerts after hours, so she's working quite a bit. She has fun though! She's hangs in there quite well and never complains!
Tom, well he's working too and then plays music when he's home. He's also doing great!
So, most the time it's just me and Zech......we have a lot of fun together! Wow, what would I do without him?! Such a blessing!!
Until next time......

Final Product

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Their finished pumpkin

Zech and Phoebe...Megan and Macey

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Some pictures

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Zech and Phoebe carving their very first Pumpkin together.

Zech and Phoebe (his foster sister from Hong Kong)

Updates

2009-10-08T10:48:00.002-05:00

Well, today we're off to North Carolina to go get Zech's sister (foster sister from Hong Kong) for the weekend. We're really excited and anxious to see if Zech remembers her....I'm sure he will. She is going to NCU for a while, not sure how long. But anyways, we're excited.
Zech has an appointment at Vandy Nov. 16th to see about doing the surgery there, his medical records are being sent to Cincinnatti for review, they are setting up appointments in December for surgery...so if we go there, looks like we'll be in the hospital for Christmas. Don't really mind, just want to get him well.
Tom's waiting on me so we can leave....will keep you updated!

Recovering....

2009-09-26T00:11:00.002-05:00

Yesterday Zech went in for minor surgery and some biopsies of his intestines, checking to see if all the nerve cells are there and working. I am not sure how I feel about what the surgeon thinks; however we are closer to a solution. Without knowing the exact issue at birth and what exactly was done in his original surgery, its hard to know what the intestines "look" like on the inside. Anyways, they think the nerve cells are there, but the anus is not in the right spot. So, he will have to undergo 2-3 major surgeries to correct this. He will be back on a colostomy bag while the surgery heals. I do not know when this will all take place, but the sooner the better. With all this said, bowel control is not guaranteed, but the odds will be better.
Also, while doing these tests yesterday, the minor surgery could not be done because they found some urinary issues that need corrected surgically. We're up to 3-4 major surgeries now. I was a basket case yesterday, I can't imagine what it will be like in the coming months. I feel so bad for him!! I can't stand it! Poor little guy!
Anyways, I know I'll be able to deal with it, just hope he's okay! I'll know more details in a couple weeks about his bottom. I go Monday to see about the urinary issues.
He's doing fine today. Not in too much pain, he's a little trooper! We've played with his cars, made tunnels with his blocks, and had a pretty good day!
Will keep everyone posted. Please pray for my little man!
Thanks and God Bless!

What will today bring.....

2009-08-30T09:09:00.002-05:00

Good morning! Sitting here drinking my coffee, watching Zech build a robot with his Mega Blocks. This is a new thing he started yesterday, have no idea where he got this idea, but regardless he's having fun doing it. He'll take a break from it to race some cars down a ramp and see which ones make it around a loop. The car his ma and pa got him is by far the fastest!

My goal today, get all things ready for the coming school week. Yes, I am trying to be organized....daytimer, papers in a folder, coffee ready to make, and clothes laid out.

Tom leaves for work after church today...the weekends are just too short! Megan will probably hang out with us today, don't know for sure, she stays pretty social lately. Macey has to work and then starts school tomorrow. The time of seeing her a lot will be over, and then in June 2010, she will be getting married and leaving the home for good.

Well, have a wonderful day.....until next time!

Wow, It's Been Three Months.

2009-08-26T15:08:00.003-05:00

No excuse. Three month?! Way too long! I think maybe sometimes you feel like no one looks at your blog, but then again, its really a great way to journal. E-mail seems easier and Facebook is great! Then there's the interuptions.....good ones sometimes, aggrevating ones other times. Regardless, they are interuptions, you lose your train of thought, and then you're over it.

Anyways, so what has the last three months brought our way? Well, we had two other children for about 6 weeks, then the grandmother missed them, and they went back to Nashville. They were missed, but I was honestly thankful to have my Zechariah for myself once again! My life, my completion, my inspiration is doing just wonderful!! He has grown like a weed! Weighs 31.5 lbs now and 38.5 inches tall! He learns something new every day! He started school full time a week ago, we were "testing" him in an IEP meeting and the teacher said "slow down, leave something for me to teach him". I was a proud momma! He knows all his letters, numbers, and shapes. Can count and picks things out when you say "give me three, or the blue one, or the #3, or the letter L"...you get the picture. Anyways, he's a smart cookie! At school he makes sure all the other kids are okay, consoles them when they're crying, etc...

My sister was real sick for a few weeks (she's better now), we went to Michigan to see my Grandma, we swam a lot....which, by the way, Zech is really good at swimming now, we did the Movies on the Square again this year (our 3rd year). Other than that, it was a pretty calm summer.

I hope this post finds all who read it well and wonderful! I'm going to go now and catch up on some blogs that I haven't read lately. It will not be so long next time. I will try to post at least once a week, hopefully more. Take care and God bless!

How things change!!!

2009-05-15T16:17:00.002-05:00

Okay, what's been going on with us? Well...a couple weeks ago we were asked if Zech needed a brother...that has a sister. This request came from a relative by marriage whose sister has custody of her 3 yr old grandson and 1 yr old granddaughter. She has been diagnosed with a terminally ill disease. Well, we prayed about it. Talked about it. Asked people for advice, and decided that this was the right thing to do and so, we will do it. We were suppose to pick them up today, but the people who are helping take care of them now are having a really hard time, they asked for one more week. We totally put this in God's hands, so what will be, will be. If God chooses for us to have 2 more children, then we become a family of 7! If he chooses for this to be a time that we help 2 children while their mother gets help, then we will stay a family of 5, but will have been blessed by helping. Sorry to keep everyone wondering, but we have had LOTS to be doing trying to get ready! Oh, I also wanted to note that I spoke with the school and our SW for Zech, and all parties agree that it would benefit Zech. I think they think he might be getting a little too spoiled :)............no way ;) ! So, I can't believe how much my life has changed in 1 year!! Life is Good!

Playing For Change | Peace Through Music

2009-05-03T21:45:00.001-05:00

Playing For Change | Peace Through Music

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Please Remember this.

2009-05-02T09:16:00.002-05:00

I was reading another blog that really touched me. Tom and I are in the process of making a BIG decision, how much more confirmation do we need?!! So, those who wonder why we do the things we do, here are some words for you:

35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in,
36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.
'37 Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink?
38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you?
39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'
40 "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.' Mt. 25:35-40

So many things to update!

2009-04-24T22:19:00.002-05:00

Boy, technology is getting complicated!! I have so many websites/blogs now, I don't know how to keep up!! We been working the past couple weeks getting websites up for our businesses and then there is some ning.com community for business, and then there is facebook. All these are great networking tools, but it's so time consuming! Anyways, things have been going great, though Zech and I have been really sick the last week! Today is the first day we both have felt ok. We have had some kind of eye thing going on...not an infection, but our eyes and face have been swollen. I first tried natural, or course...then went ahead and went to the doctor..we went back to natural and are doing better. My scanning device says it's sinus, so that's what I've been treating it as.
Anyways, my Grandma is visiting from Michigan (and my aunt and uncle). She's going to be staying a couple week. Joni and Rich are leaving Monday. We're all going to see my cousins in a play tomorrow, Tom is going to have Daddy day with Zech.
I got Zech's school pictures back, OMG, TOO Cute!! I'll have to see if I can get them scanned into the computer.
I have been looking at possibly getting Zech a service/therapy dog. The more I read, the more I really think it will be good for him. I'll probably just get one and have it trained or train it ourselves. I really would like Rottweiler for him. They are such great dogs!! We'll see. I'll try to post pictures soon, and now that we have are websites up, maybe I'll have more time.

Numbers are too fun!!!

2009-04-10T22:17:00.002-05:00

I can't believe it! Zech and I were singing the Numeral Song, while he was holding his drawing board, and he actually WROTE THE NUMBERS 1, 2, and 3!! I was so happy!! I just can't get over how quick he is learning! He can say most of his numbers and shapes, but he can't say his S's and some other sounds. I'm starting to make out a lot more that he's saying....like "Go Get It".....and I did (go figure). Okay, I guess I need to get him to bed...Thanks for listening.

Life is too fast!!

2009-04-08T18:13:00.019-05:00

I'm two days late on this post. My oldest just turned 22 Monday. I can't believe I have a daughter that old! I don't feel much older than that! She is actually on her way to LA right now. She's flying in to see a friend and then they are driving back on Route 66. This is the first time I can think of that she has ventured out without one of us. I usually get to go on her adventures with her. I already miss her! Zech is not feeling well. He has been throwing up all day. He just got through eating some soup. Hopefully he'll be able to keep it down. I probably won't be sending him to school tomorrow. It would have been his first Easter Egg hunt. Oh well, we'll have to practice. I added some pics of Zech's birthday with this post...I'm so late on everything...oh well, I'm getting better!

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Zech's Magic!!!

2009-03-31T17:45:00.007-05:00

A little story behind the video. Zech was originally sitting in the recliner. I pretended to make the foot go up and down without touching it(megan was using the lever)...he was so amazed and thought he would try too!!

Wow...It's been a while!

2009-03-27T10:07:00.002-05:00

I can't believe I haven't posted anything in so long. I can't find my cord to download pictures, I'll search high and low this weekend! Things are great! Zech seems to grow and make progress every day. He is starting to talk more, wearing his glasses every day, and learning more and more! He is still the hit of the town! Everywhere I go, people stop and comment on how cute he is! He is growing MORE attached to me! I love it, but I wonder at what point do I try to have him bond more with other people. Don't get me wrong, he loves his daddy and sisters and does well at school, but he's always making sure I'm around. I absolutely love it! That unconditional, you can do no wrong, kind of love.....NOTHING like it!

We've started planting some seeds for our garden. We started them inside to get a little jump start. I hope the weather is good enough to get the ground plowed up this weekend. Tom will have to handle that part. Megan is helping me with everything (she actually did the start up part). I think it will be a lot of work this summer, but it will be fun and great family time!

Macey is still working, going to school, and planning her wedding.....exciting times! They have set the date for June 12, 2010. Over a year away, but Macey doesn't procrastinate anything (she didn't get that from me!) She is already wanting my guest list! They have the place picked out where they are going to have it. It's really nice! It's a bed and breakfast and will be held outdoors. The gentleman that owns it is a professional landscaper and has gorgeous, antique flowers! Right now nothing is really bloomed, but it will look great in the summer months.

Everybody seems to have their own life. Lately it's just me and Zech a lot. I rarely get to see Macey. Tom I get to see about 1 1/2 days a week. Megan, well she's around more but lately seems to be busier than usual.

My Baby Girl.....

2009-03-12T22:07:00.002-05:00

Well, my baby girl is engaged!!! Her boyfriend asked her to marry him Tuesday. We knew it was coming, he asked Tom and then myself before he asked her. He's a really great guy, and though I will greatly miss her, I know she will be very happy....I've never seen anyone's eyes light up as hers do when he walks in the room or even if they spent all day together, then he calls her. They really do love each other! It's going to be next year sometime, so I still have a lot of time with her. Zech will be the ring barer! How cute will that be?!
Zech has been doing great! We had the IEP meeting at the school this week. It went very well. Zech will now be receiving one on one speech therapy once a week plus two group sessions.
The room where he receives physical and occupational therapy is bigger than I originally thought. It just needs to be brighten up, which I volunteered to paint, but it will have to wait until summer.
I also stressed my concerns of not teaching Zech based on his lable of Down Syndrome, I said he is an individual and HIS needs are to be looked at and focused on, I don't want any assumptions(I've heard so many....and they totally don't apply to Zech).
He has come such a long way! He can count and say his numbers. He knows his colors and how to say them. He can identify letters. He can blow (and he did a great job blowing his candle out on his birthday).
All is good!!!
I haven't posted pictures lately, I have to "find" my cord. I really haven't looked a lot, I just think it will pop up somewhere..
Until next time....................

Zec's Birthday Party--Success!!

2009-03-04T06:07:00.002-06:00

Well, Saturday we ad Zech a big SpongeBob Birthday party! It turned out so good!! Zech totally understood the party was for him, and actually blew out the candle(s)!! He knows he is five years old! There were over 41 people there, friends and family. We had chips and dip, homemade fried rice and noodles with soup. My friend Jenny helped me do the food(I actually think I helped her do the food), Megan and Macey decorated, and another friend made his SpongeBob cake. He received a lot of gifts. Each time he opened one, he was so excited and then I would take it away to hand him another one, the look on his face is not describable! He would get so disappointed wanting to play with the current gift that I was taking a way.
After the party, Tom and I went to some friends house where I learned how to make Sushi. So, we were out very late that night. Sunday we brought all Zech's presents to our home, it was like a party again and he actually got to play with them all then.
Everything else has been going great. We finally have a really good insurance for Zech now (that is going to help out tremendously).
School is now providing a half hour individual speech therapy. (This happened and we haven't even had the official meeting!) I went and looked at his physical therapy room again yesterday. It is bigger than I originally thought. They had some currents pulled when I was there the first time, so it is bigger than I thought. It is still loud (next to the mechanical room) and very drab (grey and dark blue), so I am still going to address that.
Well, until next time.......Oh, I will post pics later of the party.

Zech

2009-02-26T06:08:00.005-06:00

Zech's Auntie Alice (Foster Mom) sent him a Birthday present. It's a stuffed hippo that has her voice recorded on it saying "Happy Birthday". Zech loved it! He has pushed the button over and over to hear her. I went and got their picture to make sure he knew it was her (I really don't think I needed the picture....he knew). He was smiling ear to ear! Zech looks chubby in this picture, he really isn't.....he's tiny!
We will be having a birthday party at the Coffee Shop Saturday. He has lots of friends and family coming. My friend, Jenny, will be making a traditional Chinese dinner for him....I am so excited.

My Baby is Five!!!!

2009-02-25T12:46:00.002-06:00

I can't believe Zech is 5 years old today!! So tiny, so sweet!! He's been home only 9 months and now he's 5! I try to treasure each and every moment with him. I can't believe I missed 4 years of being with him!! Dwelling on that I could cry, but instead I will choose to think about the numerous years ahead of us. The numerous hugs and kisses......
Well, Happy Birthday Zech!

Disappointed in School System

2009-02-18T08:07:00.002-06:00

Well, yesterday I had a meeting with OT and Speech Therapist. The OT was very informative. Lot's of things she told me made sense, helped me to understand some of Zech's "ways". She always said "Zech" does this or can't do that. She gave me exercises that I can do at home to help him. So, I learned quite a bit from the OT. Then the speech therapist came in. Zech is currently gets speech with a group. She didn't even at like she knew much about Zech. Never said his name or even "he". She always said "kids with down syndrome" have thick tongues or can talk and just don't want to. I finally said "you must not know Zech very well, doctors have told me he does not have the typical thick tongue, and he talks ALL the time (we just can't understand him)". Then I said I think he would benefit with one on one speech therapy. She said check with my insurance and go to Cookeville. I was totally shocked with her attitude!
Okay, then I go pick him up in the Physical Therapy room. First time I had been there, I thought he went to the gym for that. OMG, It was a large closest off of the mechanical room. Grey and dark blue, like it had previously been a storage room or the Janitors closet. I don't know what is legally required by the state, but this is totally unacceptable to me!!
So, needless to say, I am going to call for another IEP. I am going to request one on one speech therapy and ask what the deal is with the physical therapy room. We'll see what happens.

On another note, Zech and I have the flu. We are going to rest up today, and will feel better tomorrow. Macey had an accident last night. She is fine, but it really scared her. I have told both girls to slow it down, I think they will listen now! I just thank God she wasn't hurt!!!

Have a blessed day!!

Morning Coffee and Kisses

2009-02-15T17:52:00.002-06:00

This morning when I got up, I was sipping on a delicious cup of coffee when my precious son came runnning in to the living room. He smiled at me and proceeded to give me the best kisses in the world!!!
Tom and I had went out last night....I guess he missed me!
What a wonderful feeling!!!
It's so funny, regardless if it's an evening out or just going to work, I miss Zech so much! The girls are the same way. If they coome home and he's sleeping, they get so upset because they have missed him all day!
So, today I am thankful for so many things. Especially Coffee and Kisses!

Happy Valentine's Day!!

2009-02-14T09:33:00.002-06:00

Exciting, isn't it? Okay, seriously, I've never been big on this type of holiday. I am not a romantic, just a sentimentalist. I believe EVERY day you should let people know how much you love them! With Christmas, birthdays, Easter, etc.... things are too commercial. My favorite holiday is Thanksgiving....Family getting together, blessing the food, and eating!! Food is blessed more on that day, by more people, than any other day of the year. Do you know why food is blessed? Microwaved, BLESSED food is better for you than organic, raw UN-Blessed food. Okay, anyways, if Valentine's is important to you, then I truly hope you have a wonderful, romantic, heart filled day!!!(We are actually going to a valentine's dinner benefit tonight...I am excited!)
God Bless!!!

Catching Up

2009-02-11T19:12:00.005-06:00

Again, we've been extremely busy! Things have been going great (except business has been slowing down quite a bit). Zech has had a little cold, but has been a little comedian! The other day, I had put Zech down for a nap, he decided he wanted to style his hair......with VASELINE!!

I had to wash it at the kitchen sink. It took 8 times to get it to look like this:

This is after blow drying it....It took 2 days to completely get it out. He had it all over his cheeks (probably good for that.....his cheeks were chapped).

How fun it was. He started crying after the 6th time washing it, he was ready to watch Sponge Bob.

His 5th birthday is coming up. I don't know if we'll celebrate the 21st or the 28th. Regardless, we will still have something on his actual birthday.

Vanderbilt

2009-01-31T21:42:00.003-06:00

Well, Tom and I adventured to Vanderbilt with Zechariah for some more tests concerning his intestines. Everything is structuraly okay; however, he is totally filled, top to bottom, with...well...stuff. We are on another clean-out program (totally not fun!), but hopefully this will do the trick. Once again, he was the hit of the hospital, he just brightens every room he enters! We went to dinner tonight with some friends, and they said exactly what I was thinking, he brightens a room, and more importantly, my life!!!

Still trying to get things settled with insurance. Everyone keeps pushing the disability card...meaning I have to apply for all these things just to get a good insurance that I want to pay for! Now, even though the adoption is final, I have to prove he is a US citizen. For $500 that won't be a problem, it may take 3 months, but I can do it....crazy?! I was told I can get a passport and that should work, so Monday, we will be getting Zechariah a passport.

Macey is back in school and still working. Doing well I might add.

Megan is working hard at the Coffee Shop. Things have been extremely slow....I guess the economy is starting to hit us. On our 2nd floor, we've opened the "2nd Story Bookstore" (a used book store)...my very creative Aunt Gina thought of the name...love the pun!!!

Tom, well he (and Zech) have been working wood. Trying to get enough for our furnace to get us through the winter. I'll tell you one thing, trying to live as an agrarian is pretty tough(please note no political opinion is to be tied to that lifestyle, just trying to save money and be healthier!)

Well, that's it in a nutshell (pretty big nut).....

Until next time!!

ABR Results

2009-01-24T16:28:00.002-06:00

Well, when I first got the results to the ABR test, I was needless to say, disappointed. But after thinking about it, it really wasn't anything I didn't already know...I guess I was just hoping for better. Zech has no hearing in his right ear, but hears in the normal range in his left ear (which is better since the tubes have been put in). He does have an issue with low tones, but nothing that hinder his speech and learning. He has actually been talking quite a bit lately. He isn't speaking very clear, but we are starting to understand quite a bit. He knows his colors now, and has been calling everyone by their name. It's really quite adorable! It's good to be back home. I have been trying to clean the house (nothing unusual), but adding a little feng shui as I go. If nothing else, it's practical. I was definitely not gifted with organization skills. Don't get me wrong, I totally know how, it just doesn't pan out well. I make great progress, but somehow it just doesn't last. Oh well, it everything was perfect, what would we do?! Until next time.....

We've been away!

2009-01-21T17:43:00.002-06:00

Sorry it's been so long since I last blogged, but I have been out of town (still am). This is the first chance I have had internet. Everything is going great! Zech is doing wonderful! He is actually talking a lot more, and his face is cleared up. I take him Friday for the ABR test. We'll know then about hearing aides. He is such a blessing (I know I say that all the time). I know this isn't much, but I don't have much time. I'll catch up this weekend.

Some pictures of Zech

2009-01-11T15:55:00.002-06:00

Update on Blood

2009-01-08T18:48:00.003-06:00

Blood work came back good!!! Zech was looking better, but now he has started turning real red again. He's on antibiotic, so hopefully by morning he'll be good. I almost forgot to tell every that Saturday night we went to some new friends house. The wife is from China and made homemade Sushi and fried rice. OMG, it was so good! Zech really bonded to her, it was neat to see he still recognizes his language. I learned a couple sayings. Jenny (the wife) is suppose to help me to learn to cook some chinese and speak a little. I actually believe it was Cantonese that I learned, I'll have to ask, but anyways it was really nice. The first thing she said to Zech, he leaned up and kissed her cheek. It was so sweet!!!I also found a picture of all of us in Hong Kong in front of Zech's school (posted above). Mrs. Lau, Zech's foster mother, is on the left. When he seen the picture, he got a big smile on his face and pointed at Mrs. Lau. I'm sure he still misses her greatly. I'm glad I have a picture of all of us with her in it. We are getting it printed and going to have it setting out so Zech can see it on a regular basis. Thanks again Mrs. Lau for all you've done!!!

Update on our family

2009-01-08T12:27:00.004-06:00

I've got pictures to post later. Right now I am waiting for a call from the doctor's office about some blood work on Zech. Right now he has a staph infection on his face. He looks horrible, but is acting fine. It's all over the left side of his face and goes behind the ear and up in his hairline. We got our final adoption papers in the mail today, so I need to go change his social security number(it is currently under his biological mother's name. He started school this week (won't be going today or tomorrow). He wasn't too happy about that. He loves being home. This past Saturday, we took him to my nephew's birthday party at Bounce Zone(has a bunch of bounce houses). He's been before, but this time he could actually do a lot by himself. He was climbing and sliding, having a ball!! Logging is still going on here, when it's not raining, we are finally able to start paying some bills off(praise the Lord!!)
This weekend I want to get some ground ready for a garden....I know, like I need more on my plate(no pun intended). We are really trying to be more self reliant(the start was with our new wood furnace). We also want to be healthier...thus it will be an organic garden. I got a heavy duty nut cracker yesterday. I've been cracking some pecans a friend picked up from his yard. I had just found out that you can actually can nuts. We use so many in baking, I thought this would help save some money.
Well, I will keep you posted on Zech's blood work.....please keep him in your prayers!

Happy New Year!

2009-01-01T01:34:00.002-06:00

Hope everyone has a very blessed 2009! We had a nice time at home tonight, playing games and laughing! Just a note on Zechariah's visit to the doctor Monday afternoon, it wasn't great news. The tubes seem to be doing what they are suppose to, however, he still isn't hearing. We are taking him Jan.23 for a sedated ABR test. At which point, he will be evaluated for hearing aids or some kind of implant. Please keep him in your prayers.
Thanks!!!

Cutest Little Elf Ever!!!

2008-12-28T08:53:00.001-06:00

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

Best Christmas Ever!!

2008-12-27T10:52:00.002-06:00

Merry Christmas!!!

2008-12-25T22:23:00.002-06:00

Well, what can I say. Our first Christmas with Zech, what a great day!! Zech loved all his presents. I believe he might have gotten a little overwhelmed. I will have to say, Zech does a lot better at home, than anywhere else. We went to my mom and dad's and spent the day. Zech was a little fussy, and not his usual happy self. He would get upset very easily today. As soon as we got home, he was great! I've noticed this on several occassions. He is very social, but happiest at home. He plays really good with my nephew, who will turn 3 next week. Zech's birthday is just around the corner, so I need to figure out what kind of party to have. I will probably just have one at home this year since he is more secure here.

I got a camera today, so that means I will get to post a lot more pictures!! I can hardly wait!! I will download the software tomorrow, and then start uploading my pictures. I hope I can figure out how to post better pictures, like an album or something.

I hope eveyone had a very blessed day!

Adoption Final!!!!

2008-12-12T23:11:00.002-06:00

Well, today was the big day! Our adoption became final at about 9:30 this morning. Megan, Macey, Brad, and Lisa (the SW) were at the courthouse. What a wonderful moment! We went to dinner tonight and celebrated. Zech still isn't feeling wonderful since the surgery. I thought I would notice a big difference with his hearing, but I'm not sure that I am. I really don't know what I was expecting. I guess he wouldn't immediately start talking english. In time. I know he still has a lot of fluid (I can hear it in his throat). He needs to be drinking more water, but he doesn't like drinking right now. Tomorrow is the Christmas parade. Tom's band will be playing at the coffee shop afterwards. I hope Zech is feeling good.
Well, just wanted to share the good news. I will probably change my blog address at some point since our adoption journey has ended today. I can remember reading other people's blogs a year ago, thinking "I will never get to that point", "will he ever be home", "Is all this just a dream". Well, here I am now, with my precious son!!Wondering, how in the world have I lived without him. The judge said today, "you know this is for a long time, until he is 18 or 21 he will be your son." I thought that odd, and told him he will be our son even when he is 50, he will be our son forever! Isn't it funny how someone 10,000 miles away, born a different race, by people you've never met or dreamed of meeting, can totally, 100 percent, be really meant for your family? Really meant to be your child. Isn't God amazing?!

Megan & Zech in the local paper

2008-12-09T19:12:00.002-06:00

This is the picture that was on the front page of our local paper. It talked about it being Zech's first Christmas in America and how his big sister and him are helping needy kids in White County. The tree had a hundred names of local kids that need Christmas. Megan does this every year at the coffee shop, it's always a great success!

Zech in his winter hat

2008-12-09T19:09:00.001-06:00

Now, How cute is this?!!

Surgery

2008-12-09T16:43:00.002-06:00

Zechariah did great during his surgery!!! The doctor said he should hear a lot better. He had a very thick fluid behind his eardrums and his adenoids were very inflammed. They did not do the ABR test. Insurance would not pay for it in a surgical environment, it has to be done in the hearing center (sedated). I offered to pay cash, but they said that is illegal?! So annoying. I hate having to have Zech sedated once, let alone twice. But, as many points as I threw out, I did not "win". However, after the surgery, the doctor said the ABR test would not have been accurate because of the suction that the tubes cause right after being put in. So, after 3 weeks, I will take him back and we will schedule the test, if needed. He may show that he can hear fine by then. He is already showing an improvement in hearing. I can whisper his name and he turns his head! So excited!!! I am so proud of Zech! He has been such a trooper through all this!!
Thank for all your prayers!

Adoption Day!!!

2008-12-03T20:22:00.003-06:00

Well, Friday Dec. 12th, we finalize our adoption!! Yeah!!!! I don't think a thing will change, except he will be a legal Dawson!! Also, a US citizen. Happy Day!! Zech was sick for a few days, stomach virus. He was very clinging....which I didn't mind a bit!!! We go for more doc visits tomorrow for surgery prep. He will be operated on Tuesday. I'm kinda nervous, but God is good and I know he will be fine!! Things are very crazy around here. We have loggers starting to log our property (please pray for a birds eye maple!!!!), we've been trying to get a wood furnace installed, work has been busy, and I haven't even began to think about buying Christmas presents(well, except for Zech!!). Well, time to get Zech to bed. God bless.

Happy Thanksgiving!!

2008-11-27T20:50:00.002-06:00

We have so much to be thankful for!! I remember last year wishing so much that Zech would be home, now this year he is!!! He really enjoyed his first Thanksgiving! He played with his cousins, ate lots of turkey, and then fell asleep! Some friends are over now and he is playing in a tent, having a blast!! What a blessing!! In twelve days he will be having his surgery. Please keep him in your prayers. The x-ray came back, and his spine is fine. Thank you Lord!! Macey found a sponge bob pillow and gae it to Zech, he loves it! Well, good night and happy Thanksgiving!!

Zech Doing a Sound Check

2008-11-18T13:09:00.005-06:00

Zech playing the air guitar

Zech's doing a sound check for Tom's band. He looks chubbier than he really is!!

OMG! This is a great video and song!

2008-11-17T22:04:00.006-06:00

On Our Way to Hearing!!

2008-11-17T17:51:00.002-06:00

Zech does have fluid behind his ears. He goes Dec. 9th to have tubes put in his ears, his tonsils and adenoids taken out, and an ABR test done(some test on the brain to check his hearing). It's a two hour surgery, but he should be able to come home after. His tonsils are extremely large, that's why he has trouble sleeping. It should help him breath better, so he'll get a better night's sleep(they said he has sleep apnea). I wish we could go sooner, but it's all in God's time!
Zech was a little scared today. He's been to the doc several times since he's been home, so I don't know why he was scared. I comforted him and he got okay. Hopefully when it's all done, he will not only hear better, but feel better too.
We're all very excited to get this done.
Also, Sunny is now with Zech's foster mom. I am so excited that he is in a loving home. Please keep Sunny and a boy named Wallace in your prayers that they will find their forever families soon.
Thanks and God Bless.

Oh How Time Flies By!!

2008-11-15T11:51:00.002-06:00

I can not believe I haven't posted in so long!! Everything has been going great here. We have sent the final adoption papers off and are just waiting for a court date. Dec. 1st we will have been with Zech 6 months! I can't believe it's been that long, but at the same time I feel like he's been here his whole life!! Monday we take Zech to an ENT(ear,nose, throat) specialist. I am almost positive they will want to put tubes in his ears. I hope they do it soon. We want to take him to Michigan, but I would like that done before we go.
Last Saturday, Tom's band played at the Coffee Shop. They did an awesome job! Some people got up to dance, and Zech got up there with them. When they sat down, Zech ran up on stage and danced and played the air guitar. I asked a friend "am I just having a mommy moment, or is he just cute as heck?" They said he was cute as heck, so it wasn't just me! OMG, where is a video camera when you need one. There were a few people there video taping, so hopefully one will give me a copy!
My toe is still hurting, but the swelling is down quite a bit. I'm still hobbling along.
Megan and Macey are still working quite a bit. Megan and Nick broke up a couple weeks ago. Megan was sad, but seems to be doing okay. There are three different guys calling the house for her now, so I think that makes her feel good. We do miss Nick though, he's been in the family over two years, it's kinda hard to just not have him around now.
I'm sure there's a lot more to catch up on, but this is the jist of it all.
God Bless!

Pictures from Yesterday

2008-11-02T16:21:00.001-06:00

Halloween!

2008-11-01T20:00:00.002-05:00

Yesterday was so much fun!! Zech was Sponge Bob Square Pants. Megan made his costume, too cute!(Will post picture late tonight or in the morning). We went to a local church that had a trunk or treat. They had bounce houses and Zech did so good! He was actually able to do it by himself. We had taken him to a bounce house before, and he didn't have the strength to climb or the coordination to stand up, but he did great last night! Megan went with him to make sure he was okay, but he didn't need any help(except to get him out because he didn't want to leave). After that, Tom and Zech went to my mom and dad's to show them his outfit. I went with Megan to a haunted forest, we had such a good time! I didn't get home until 2:30 this morning. When I went to bed, Zech woke up and put his arms around me. I absolutely love his hugs and kisses!!! He is such a special child!!! The other day, I was reading a blog that had a picture of their child that has some physical issues, Zech rubbed the photo and said "Awwww", then put his head on my shoulder and started to cry. How amazing is that to be 4 yrs. old and have such empathy for another child!!!!! My goodness, what we should learn from him!
Well, on another note. Mom, Dad, and my nephew Tripp came over on the four-wheeler today. Zech wanted a ride, so dad, Tripp, and Zech went for a ride. I ran into the house to get the camera and stubbed my toe. It took my breath and brought tears to my eyes. I got in the house (after taking the picture) and my toe was killing me! I took my sock off and my pinky toe fell to the side. Needless to say, I was worried that something else might be broke because it hurt so bad. We went to a healthcare facility and my toe is broke. It was a complete break, but not much they can do except tape it up (which dad and Tom had already done). Still hurts extremely bad!! But, this too shall pass.
Until next time.......................

Hearing Test

2008-10-30T16:47:00.002-05:00

Well, the final visit with the SW went well. We will be sending the final adoption papers off at the first of the week and will hopefully have a court date soon! The hearing test went very good. They were actually able to tell if the ear drum was moving or if there was fluid behind it. He does have fluid in both ears. Also, they had a device that they put on his head to "bypass" the fluid to check his hearing. Which, he heard in the normal range!! Yeah! What that means is we go on Nov. 17th at 1 pm to an ENT who will probably schedule to have tubes put in his ears to help drain the fluid. At the same time, they will probably do an ABR test to get a better understanding if there is permenant hearing loss and how each ear hears. I can't wait for him to be able to hear better! I think his speech will improve quite a bit after that. So, everything went great today! Another step made towards total health and to officially become a Dawson!!!

Final Visit!!!

2008-10-30T06:51:00.003-05:00

Today our SW is coming for her final visit with Zechariah. After that we will be ready to finalize the adoption. We are so excited!!! Not that it changes how we feel or anything, but he will legally be a Dawson! How exciting!! Zech also goes for a hearing test today. We have been waiting to get him into an ENT, but we have to have the hearing test first for the referal. Can't wait for that to get settled. Macey has been working a lot. She likes it, but it seems odd not seeing her as much as we use to. Megan has been working a lot too. It's Christmas season and she has quite a few parties booked. I try to post later and let everyone know how the visit and testing goes. The picture above was taken on the square of Sparta. We were having a "Souper Bowl" that day (soup and chili cook off). Tom's band was playing.

God Bless!!

Too darn cute!!

2008-10-23T20:08:00.004-05:00

Here is a brief video of Zech jumping. I turned the camera sideways so I could get his feet, not realizing it would be viewed that way. Sorry, but you can still see how adorable he is! I met the sweetest young man today. He is 27 and his name is Micheal. He has Down syndrome. He immediately stuck out his hand and introduced himself, explaining he was "new"(he just moved here from Florida). He came in the store with a lady who recently moved here and has been coming in the store quite a bit, she knew Zech. She told Micheal that my son had ds and he said "me too, I'm gifted". It was so precious!! I thought was a great thing to say! Yesterday Zech and I went to TTU(Local college) and I spoke in a class about raising a child with special needs. I told them we had adapted to Zech's special needs and he has adapted to ours. I really tried to make sure everyone knew that we all have special needs and Zech is no different (or harder) to raise than Megan and Macey were.......are(ha!ha!) Hope you enjoy the video!

The past week

2008-10-17T09:22:00.002-05:00

Well, Zech has had the stomach flu. He's doing great today, but was throwing up a couple days ago, and very tired and grouchy. He's back to his sweet little self now! Macey started her job at Maurice's this week. She didn't like her first day, but yesterday was better. She has really been busy with school and work, but doing great. Last Saturday we had the wedding reception at the coffee shop. It went so good!! The bride's mom said "it was perfect. Couldn't have dreamed of it going any better". Megan did such a good job, I was really impressed!! Zech stayed with a friend of ours while the reception was going on. Her little boy is in Zech's class, he had a ball. She took him to a pumpkin patch and he got to pick a pumpkin. She is suppose to send me pics, I'll post them as soon as she does. This weekend is our soup and chili cookoff on the square, after that, we don't have much planned. I'm wanting to go to Michigan in November to take Zech and meet the rest of our family. I think he will have a ball! My grandma is really missing him. She talks about him all the time. Some people came to the Coffee shop yesterday that was interested in adopting from Hong Kong. I told them about Sunny. I so pray he finds a family soon. I wish I could post his picture, he is so adorable!!

What's been going on?

2008-10-08T08:04:00.005-05:00

Well, since my last post, we've just been doing day-to-day things. The store/coffee shop has been extremely busy with different events, which is a blessing, just not a lot of extra time. I am so behind in reading other blogs, I really miss it. Zechariah is loving school and going with Rachel(Karate). He is getting a little more vocal and has started jumping. It is so cute!!!! He barely gets off the ground, but is getting better at it every day! Macey applied for 2 jobs in Cookeville, and got both. She is working hard to be able to move and be closer to school. She is going to be missed! Megan has been fervently working! She has a big wedding at the coffee shop Saturday. They start setting up Friday. Tom's band will be playing at it, so he's been busy doing with that. Zech has a four day weekend from school, I'm looking forward to that. I love it when we get to spend so much time together. Hoping I get my own camera for Christmas so I can take a lot more pictures. Oh, Monday night Macey, Zech, and I went to an International Adoption meeting. I was the guest speaker. It went really well. There is a family there adopting from HK, so they had questions, that always helps. Zech was great! He was dressed up with a little tie on, too cute! When we were in Hong Kong, we were able to stay a few hours at the orphanage and play with the kids. There is one little boy that we all keep thinking about. Macey actually wakes up crying about him, she's so worried. His name is Sunny and is 2 months younger than Zech. Please keep him in your prayers that he will find his forever family. We got pictures of him Monday, he is so adorable. Well, until next time.................

Zech and his best friend Kayden

2008-10-03T23:07:00.005-05:00

Here are some pic's of Kayden and Zech. We gathered stuff for our fairy house. The kids loved it!! They built their first house that day.

Past due photos

2008-10-03T22:56:00.005-05:00

Zech At the County Fair

Zech riding in a boat

Macey and Zech coming down the big slide

Vanderbilt Appointment

2008-09-29T09:42:00.002-05:00

Friday we took Zech to Vanderbilt, finally!! They didn't cancel his appointment this time. First they did a video swallow study because in April of this year he had been silently asperating. He is NOT asperating now, praise the Lord!! He can drink thin liquids now, though he doesn't want to. He still like me feeding him his water. I have still been thickening it, but gradually decreasing and trying to get him to drink from a straw. We met with a general surgeon and GI doctor to check his bottom. They both seem to think he has a sphincter(spelling?) and he will be able to be potty trained. He has a lot of harden stool in his intestines, so I am doing a three day cleanse to remove it, and then will be on miralax every day to regulate. This was all very exciting news to us. I hope they are right, but we will deal with whatever happens. I can't believe I have fallen so behind in posting, we have been busy morning til night. We had a huge day at the store saturday. It was Liberty Square Celebration (fall festival) and we were busy from 7am until 11pm. Tom brought Zech up there around 3pm. He had a ball! We had three different bands play at the Coffee Shop and Zech loved every minute (he did fall asleep once though for about 30 minutes). I have several pics to post, its just finding the time. I use Macey's camera and she has it most the time. I think I know what I need for Christmas. Well I hope everyone is well...God Bless!

Strep Throat

2008-09-20T23:27:00.003-05:00

Over the last few days(Since Wednesday), Zech has had strep throat. He's doing fine now, but he was running a fever and very inactive)which is unusual for Zech). He had me worried, he couldn't tell me why he didn't feel well, and that made me feel helpless. But, he doing great now. Macey has been keeping me busy with looking for an apartment. She's going to move to Cookeville(only 25 miles away), but she will be right by her school and that will save on gas. As much as she has been spending lately, she will actually be saving money by moving. She's looking for a two bedroom one to share with her friend, Christina. Both are good kids, so we don't mind helping her out. I had a little breakdown worrying about her (never watch a documentary on serial killers when your baby girl is wanting to move out!!) I went over the safety issues with her once again (they hear it all the time), she has common sense, I just have to put her in God's hands(as with all the kids)! Megan has been doing well, she's been a bit under the weather lately too, but feeling a lot better today. I can't believe its been a week since I posted, time just keeps speeding by!! I read an article about how one lady de-stressed by building fairy houses with her daughter. It sounded like so much fun! Getting back outside and doing things with your kids instead of in front of the tv. ....what a great idea! They would actually have to use their imagination!! There is a book on fairy houses by Tracey Kane, and a website http://www.fairyhouses.com/. It's sounds really fun!!

2nd Follow-Up visit

2008-09-12T21:52:00.002-05:00

Well, our sw left about 1/2 hour ago. Things went really well. She is great!!Zech was his adorable self, except when he wasn't getting full attention and pushed my coffee cup off the table! It spilled and the cup broke. He has never done anything like this. All we could figure is there were 3 strangers in the house and he wasn't getting all the attention. I was kind of embarrassed, hoping she wasn't thinking he had attachment issues or wasn't happy, but she seemed to be fine with it. I am suppose to speak at an international adoption meeting in October. Zech will come with me. I'm a little nervous, but think I can do it! Tomorrow is my sister-in-law's baby shower (called a baby sprinkle). It's their 2nd child so that's why they are calling it a sprinkle instead of a shower.....I thought it was cute! They are having it at the coffee shop, so Megan and Macey are going to be quite busy tomorrow. Well, it's time for bed. Tom should be home in a couple hours, Zech will be happy to see him when he wakes up.
God Bless!

Internet has been down a few days

2008-09-11T21:27:00.003-05:00

Well, our internet has been down a few days. Just got it back up, still going through 300+ e-mails. Everything has been going well. Zech was suppose to go to Vanderbilt today, on our way, they called and cancelled. Talk about mental breakdown!! It was for his intestines and swallowing, I'm very anxious to get on a game plan for bowel control, but I guess it will have to wait. It's rescheduled for Sept. 26th. Zech was dedicated at church this pass Sunday. It was wonderful!! The whole congregation got a kick out of Zech. He was singing and dancing and raising his hands. It was awesome!!!! He's saying a few more words. Speech therapy started at school last week. We also had the fair in town. He absolutely loved it! He went down the BIG slide a few times with Tom and Macey, he was laughing so loud....and that smile.....OMG priceless!! Our SW is coming tomorrow for the 2nd follow up visit. It should be final by the end of this year...hopefully!! Macey has started school back. All is well so far. Megan is still working away at the store. I hired a woman that use to work for us a few years ago. I have been so busy lately, I can't seem to keep up with things at work (I think it's because I love staying at home with Zech and haven't been going in much). Well, Until next time...............

What's been going on lately

2008-09-03T21:59:00.002-05:00

Well, as always, we've been busy. Zech has been enjoying school. I think he has been showing a little more need for security, he doesn't like it when I leave him at school, but loves it after I leave. He hasn't been crying, he just looks sad. I don't know if I should have waited or not. I just really didn't want him to fall behind on his therapies. If it gets any worse(if he starts crying every day) we'll keep him home. Zech had an appointment at Vanderbilt tomorrow, but it got moved to next Thursday. Zech continues to be a blessing each and every day! He's still the hit of the town!! We actually got seated at a restaurant in front of like 6 families that were already waiting! It took over a half hour to place our order because people kept coming to the table to talk to us.....we felt famous!! He makes everyone that meets him smile and laugh!

Zech's first day of school

2008-08-27T21:10:00.008-05:00

Zech being silly before school....I think he's excited!!

Zech blowing us kisses

Mommy and Zech

Daddy and Zech

Zech after a long day.

Zech at school

Zech's first day

2008-08-25T15:40:00.002-05:00

Well, today was Zech's first day of school. He loved it!! He only goes 2 1/2 hours. I don't know if that's the norm or not, but that's what they offer here. In HK he went 8 hours so I hope he doesn't fall behind. We are working with him at home of course, so hopefully we're doing everything right. Last week was super busy! I had classes so Tom kept Zech. I really think that was a good bonding time for them. Zech had fun with his daddy! They hung out, went golfing, went to Nashville. I have pictures, but we're on our way to a birthday party, so I'll have to post them later. Zech will be going to Vanderbilt again on Sept. 4th. They will be checking his intestines (looking for Hershburg disease.. not sure if I spelled that right) and he will be having a swallow study done. He had one in Hong Kong in February, but for whatever reason they want another one. On Sept. 7th we will be officially dedicating Zech at church. We already did that personally, we know God is in control of his life, but we would like to make it public. Megan bought Zech a picinic basket, that he absolutely loves. So, we've been having picinics in the house the last couple days. Well, just wanted to put in a quick update. God bless!!

Busy the next 6 days

2008-08-17T08:18:00.005-05:00

Thought I would post first thing this morning. This next week is going to be very busy, and I don't know how much time I'll have to post. I have some classes throughout this week, Zech meets with the school tomorrow morning. It's my niece's birthday today.....Happy Birthday Erica!!! Over the last couple days, it seems Zech has been saying more (hopefully it's because some of the ear wax is gone). He mostly has been singing when he says something, but that's okay, he is always music to my ears!! Yesterday he tried getting into the cabinets....literally, I got one quick pic of it. Also, I thought I would post another one of him in Daddy's big truck. I don't know who was happier that day, Zech or Daddy.

Keeping It Real

2008-08-16T13:54:00.003-05:00

Several people have blogged on "keeping it real". I have had a hard time trying to think of something to put, but have actually came up with several today.

1. I am a master wanna be organized person. I try and try to be organized, but just can't master it. I make lists, and lose them. I buy notebooks, and start writing in them, and then just stop. I have baskets, tubs, bins, etc... for things and they just end up with a bunch of junk in them. Anything flat ends up with stuff on them. Then, one day I spend going through the stuff, only to end up throwing most of it away, or moving it to another location because I don't know what to do with it. I will master it though.......someday! Mind you, my house isn't really that messy, things are neatly stacked or put somewhere out of view most the time.

2. I hate feet!!! Clean, dirty, whatever. I can't stand anyone (except my kids for some reason) to touch me with their feet! I don't want anyone touching mine, nor do I want to touch theirs! (except my kids).

3. I can not stand to pick up after adults! Dirty dishes put in the sink drive me crazy when they can be put in the dishwasher. Clothes laying on the floor or brushes, hair dryers, etc... being left on the counter drive me crazy. I am not the most domesticated person, so I do well to keep up with myself let alone other adults.

4. I love mysteries, puzzles, and problem solving. If something doesn't work right, I have to figure out why. I'm not saying I'm good at any of these, I do usually figure things out, it just might take me hours or days, but I get obsessed until I do figure it out.

5. I absolutely love my family (and God) more than anything in this world!!! I have had the best parents, grandparents, sister, brother, husband and kids than anyone could possibly imagine!!! I would rather have a family night together than do anything else! I treasure ever moment I get to spend with my family. My parents live right up the road from us, and I will have to truly say they are my best friends! To go up there and just sit and have a cup of coffee.......priceless!!! To be able to work with my daughters (also my best friends) is the best job ever (even if the pay isn't that great!) To be able to laugh, love, and hold my precious baby boy......words can't describe the feeling!!!! And last, but not least, to be able to share this with my lifetime best friend, my husband, is totally awesome!!! What a blessed life I have....thank you God!!

6. I'm a project person. I love to have something going on all the time( which there usually is). I always have a mission, a dream. I am constantly thinking of new projects, always have a new dream, or get on a soap box about something. While I think my family gets tired of these projects, they are always there to help my along with my latest dream, that's why they usually get accomplished....thanks family!!!

Well, I think that's it for now. Thanks for letting me share this.

Some Pics long overdue to post

2008-08-15T19:03:00.014-05:00

Zech and my precious Grandma, one of Zech's biggest fans!!
Zech loving on Frankie!

Zech in Daddy's Big Truck!!!

Zech's Vanderbilt Visit .,

2008-08-15T09:22:00.005-05:00

Everything went great at Vanderbilt. They all thought Zech was sweet and cute(go figure....!!) They did an ECG(I think that's the correct abbreviation) on his heart, and said the repair was excellent! They got a little wax out of his ears. In a few weeks we'll be going back for tests on his lungs, a swallow test, and to check his intestines. His thyroid test came back okay also. So, he's pretty healthy so far!! He was so good! He shook the doctors hands when he met them, said "Tank you", and blew them a kiss when they were leaving.

Zech getting his heart checked out...he was so good!

Zech on our way to Vanderbilt

Zech singing

2008-08-12T14:50:00.002-05:00

I don't know if you can tell in the video below, but when the song says "I wanna stop and thank you baby" Zech make the sign stop and thank you with his hands. Also, when it says "How sweet it is to be loved by you", he crosses his heart and points at someone (usually me...yeah!). I tried to stay out of the video, but we always get carried away with this song.....he loves it!!

How Sweet It Is!

2008-08-12T13:13:00.005-05:00

Here is Zech dancing to "How Sweet It Is" by Michael Buble. He gets pretty excited every time he hears this song! We thought it was just too cute to keep to ourselves. :)

Once again!

2008-08-10T20:57:00.002-05:00

Well, once again, Zech was the hit at church today. He had everyone laughing the way he praises during the songs. He loves it so much!! He snaps his fingers, raises his arms, dances, claps, and yes he even sings! Zech is talking a little more, that we can understand. He calls megan "Gegan", calls our dog frankie "Ankie", wow is "ow", bye bye (plain), uh oh, hello, and I'm sure there are others, just not off the top of my head. He is still very active, very loving, and absolutely very adorable!!! Zech loves music, he listens to our IPods and dances and sings to them. I have to play our adoption journey over and over. We have a video of him singing and dancing to it. It's on Macey's computer, so she will have to post it....hopefully soon. Zech pretends to talk on the phone all the time. I believe he's calling his foster mom, Mrs. Lau, who I know he loves and misses! I wish everyone could experience his smile and laughter every day, it will melt the coldest of hearts!! Macey has been busy getting ready for school, she just bought a MAC, and loves it. Megan is camping out tonight with a Karate group. Tom, well he is working as always. I feel bad that he is away during the week, but Zech is so excited when he walks through the door. We've got a busy next two weeks. Doctor appointments, school (yes, Zech is going to start school......only 3 hrs. a day.....I won't make him stay if he doesn't want to, I can always wait until next year) and I actually have a couple tests that I need to take to keep up my certification(quantum biofeedback practitioner). Well, until next time.......

Zech at Coffee Corner

2008-08-06T09:02:00.003-05:00

I made a short video of Zech for Megan. She took my Grandma home to Michigan and was missing Zech! It's from a cell phone, a little blurry, but you can still see how incredibly cute he is( okay, I am not being partial!) We've been busy, as always. Actually, I just don't know where time goes. Zech has learned to count to five(verbally and actually counts blocks). I can make out what he's saying, I'm not sure how many other people could though. I had a woman come to the CC yesterday to do an evaluation on Zech. The only thing he is behind in is communication, which I knew that. It was hard for her to tell on some things, because of the communication gap. But, his gross and fine motor skills are on target (low side) and cognition, reasoning, and socially seem to be on target. She was pretty impressed with him(who wouldn't be....ha!ha!) Okay, I know, I'm starting to sound like one of those obnoxiously proud moms. I'll try to keep it under control!

He got in!!!

2008-08-01T12:40:00.002-05:00

Well, some good news. Zechariah was accepted to the Down Syndrome clinic at Vanderbilt university. They are a great hospital, and have several specialists that will evaluate Zechariah and make sure he is on track for everything he needs. We will be going August 14th! It will probably take all day, we have to be there at 8am. I know he will see an ear specialist and heart specialist that day, plus the PT, OT. There will be others, but I'm not sure what they'll do first. The past couple days we've been hanging out with my Grandma, she's going home tomorrow. We will be going to "The Town Square" tonight to show the movie Bambi. For those of you who don't know, I am President of the Downtown Business Assoication, and last year we started showing outdoor movies on the square. It's free to the community, but requires a lot of work with the concessions and setting up the movie(sound, screen, etc...). I couldn't do it without the help of family and friends. They pretty much do everything now, I just work the projector. Zechariah really enjoys it. He's been doing wonderful!! Until next time......

He's growing up!

2008-07-28T22:09:00.003-05:00

Well, we measured Zech today. He has grown 1 1/4" and has gained 1 lb! We are marking the door frame with his height. Macey started singing a little bit ago and Zech started singing too. It was so cute! Megan got up and started singing and doing the motions to "Father Abraham" and Zech got up and did that too. OMG! He is so adorable! Well, got to get to bed.

Have I been slacking??

2008-07-25T09:00:00.002-05:00

I know it's been a few days, sorry. We've just been busy, I can't believe how quick time is flying by!! I took Zech to the doctor yesterday, he dropped a toy train on his toe Saturday and a little piece of skin was scraped off. It ended up getting infected. I have no idea why, I cleaned it well with hydrogen peroxide and put antibiotic cream on it, and it wasn't even a big scrape or anything. Oh well, they gave me antibiotics, and it's better this morning! Grandma will be staying this week with us. I wish she would move down here or a least stay 6 months here and 6 months in Michigan. I also had Cranial Sacrial done on Zech yesterday, he seems to be hearing a lot better this morning...I'm really amazed! Tonight we have the "Movie on the Square" we will be playing Swiss Family Robinson. It might get rained out, I hope not. Tomorrow I have a training class in Nashville, so Tom is going to be hanging out with Zech. I like my kids, we get so home sick for him if we're gone away from him just a few hours. Well, until next time......

Some Pics from a couple weeks ago.

2008-07-21T14:10:00.005-05:00

Zech after a long day of swimming.....I don't know if I was ever able to get in this position!!

Uncle Dan and Zech snoozing away!!

Zechariah and his friend Kayden. She will be 3 next month. I need to get better at taking the pictures when they are actually smiling!!

The Journey

2008-07-20T22:59:00.004-05:00

Tomorrow is Tom and my niece Jamie's Birthday. Everyone came to the house for cake and ice cream and then the all the kids and I went to the movies to see "Journey to the Center of the Earth"--3-D. Zech was so funny! At first I wasn't sure if he would keep the glasses on, but after putting them on and trying to figure out what was going on, he loved them and left them on the whole movie. He really enjoyed it, as did everyone else. I've got a picture, but it's pretty dark because of the theater, but I'll post it anyways. Hope everyone was able to view the video. I really enjoyed doing that once I figured it out. Until next time.

Zech helping Mommy

2008-07-19T23:23:00.002-05:00

My neighbor had a freak accident and I was baking a cake for her, Zech decided he wanted to help...think he liked it!

Hong Kong Adventure

2008-07-19T23:08:00.003-05:00

I think I got this figured out. I hope it works!

Grandma's Here!

2008-07-16T05:57:00.004-05:00

Well, my Grandma came in from Michigan Sunday evening. I have been with her the past few days. She is probably one of the funnest people I've ever met. We went to my uncle's house Monday night. Everybody just loved Zechariah. It was funny, Zech doesn't just take to strangers, but he had a ball!! My Uncle (Greg) is an excellent guitar player and he gave Zech his very own guitar(it was one of his sons first guitars)!! He loves it!! Zech really enjoys music, which surprises me since he has some hearing problems. I have pictures, but probably won't post any until tonight. I really have to work on this picture thing, I use the girls camera's and they end up getting to full or the batteries go dead. I will probably have to get my own. I have been trying to work on a video of our Hong Kong trip. It won't post though, I keep getting an error...so, don't know what's going on. Until next time.....

All is Good!

2008-07-13T20:48:00.006-05:00

Been trying to figure out how to make a slide show, can't figure it out yet. We have been busy!! Zech is doing great! He has been very active! He is liking playing the guitar, drums, and any other musical equipment he can find!! He got his first "Big Boy" haircut since he's been home. He was very good, but I don't think he liked it too much. He's very cute!! Here's some pictures to show a little that's been going on.

We had a big weekend!!

2008-07-06T21:36:00.009-05:00

Megan and Macey playing along with Zech's "copying" game!

The "goggle" face.

Zech teaching Macey and Tisha(Family friend) how to stick out their tongues.

All Smiles!!

Zech splashing in the pool.

Well, a lot has been going on the last few days. Friday we spent all day on our downtown square for the Fourth of July Celebration. Tom ran the music, Megan orgainzed all the booths, Macey worked the coffee shop, and Zech and I hung out. I have pics to post of that tomorrow, they are on Megan's camera which is at the store. We had some friends come in from Troy, TN that stayed with us (8 of them). So, we had a house full!!! We had a couple cookouts this weekend. Zech had a blast!! He played so hard, I have never seen someone laugh so much!! He likes to play a "copy" game that he does something and we have to follow him. It is so funny!!! Here is some of our pictures.

Some belated pictures...

2008-07-02T21:26:00.006-05:00

Zech enjoying the Bass with Brad.

Zech wanting to play with the camera.

Zech getting a little crazy!!

Zech and Pa Pin

2008-07-02T07:04:00.003-05:00

Yesterday afternoon, Zech and I went to my mom and dad's. We were sitting outside drinking coffee and dad started playing his harmonica. Zech crawled up in dad's lap and just smiled. He was absolutely taken in by it all. If we would have stopped talking, he would have fallen to sleep in no time. I was glad to see him bonding with my dad. I have a picture, but it's on my phone. I will have to have my daughter figure out how to get it downloaded to my computer. He also kept going to the door hollering for what sounded like "Ma". (Mom wasn't home from work yet). I checked with a local sw who will be coming by next week to "evaluate" Zech and give me some things to do with him to help in different areas. I have a meeting with the school in August for another evaluation. I really hope his hearing is addressed by then , either putting tubes in his ears or hearing aids. He seems to be trying to talk a lot. Some of the things sound fine, others have a muffled sound(which is probably how he's hearing it). So, I thought I would learn something today, but it's just working up to getting him to specialists. Again, until next time.
God Bless!

A Little Summer Fun :)

2008-07-01T08:49:00.003-05:00

Yesterday, Zech, the girls, and I went to a friends house to play. They have a two year old daughter Kayden who loves to play with Zech. When we got there, Zech was very excited to play in her little play house. He also loved her kitchen set and pushed around a little shopping car! He was also very fascinated with the kid sized pool on their deck. After they played for a bit, Zech ate some pizza, but was more occupied with all the toys. After dinner, Zech and Kayden rode a kid-sized Gator (a little motorized vehicle). Zech LOVED it! He learned how to steer it, though he liked pushing on the pedal much more! He did such a great job, and he was not scared a bit! After the Gator, Zech, Kayden, and Valisha (Kayden's grandmother) baked cookies. He did not care much for the cookie, but he loved decorating them!! Overall, I would say Zech had a blast!! We cannot believe how well he is adapting with everyone. It is absolutely wonderful. Another thing is, he loves computers! As a write this, he is sitting in my lap trying to type on the keys. His coordination is getting better and better by the day. He is hearing much better also. Each day brings a new and exciting surprise! Until next time.

Evaluation

2008-06-30T13:31:00.002-05:00

Things are going good. Tomorrow we go for an evaluation for Zech. The main thing we will be looking at is his hearing. I don't know if we'll actually find anything out tomorrow or if they'll just schedule us to go to a specialist. I kinda think Zech was feeling a little insecure, so we haven't really done anything the past few days, just stay at the house. We've gone outside some and played ball. Mom and Dad have a tee ball set and Zech played with it. He's pretty good, wants to hold the bat with one hand though. I will probably pick one up tomorrow, I think it will help with his hand-eye coordination. I have to schedule an appointment with the school to try to get him in this fall, shouldn't be a problem. Tom went to work yesterday (his truck was broke down for a week). He's missing Zech. He says he wants my job of staying home with Zech. Little does he know being a "house wife/mom" is a lot of work! Well, will post later.

SS Card

2008-06-26T20:57:00.002-05:00

We received Zech's SS card today. We still don't have his green card (I think that's what I'll be receiving). He went swimming all day, and is a little tired tonight. I had to go to a city leadership meeting today and a retirement party for a lady that worked for the chamber of commerce. Zech was the talk all day! Everyone is anxious to meet him and think he is adorable(they seen his picture in the paper). All is still going great!